Use GPTQ-Marlin for supported GPTQ configurations (#2111)
GPTQ-Marlin is currently the best-performing kernel for GPTQ models. So
let's use it by default if the kernels are installed, the GPU supports
it, and the kernels support the configuration.
For models generated by `text-generation-server quantize`, use
`sym=False`. This subcommand symmetric quantization since the beginning
and incorrectly reporting the model to be symmetric will use
GPTQ-Marlin (which does not support asymmetric quantization).