fix multi-image case for llava-onevision (#38084)
* _get_padding_size module
* do not patchify images when processing multi image
* modify llava onevision image processor fast
* tensor to list of tensors
* backward compat
* reuse pad_to_square in llave & some clarification
* add to doc
* fix: consider no image cases (text only or video)
* add integration test
* style & repo_consistency