add gather_use_object arguments II (#31799)
* add gather_use_object arguments
* fix name and pass the CI test for Seq2SeqTrainer
* make style
* make it to functools
* fix typo
* add accelerate version:
* adding warning
* Update src/transformers/trainer.py
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* make style
* Update src/transformers/training_args.py
* check function move to initial part
* add test for eval_use_gather_object
* fix minor
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