Enable instantiating model with pretrained backbone weights (#28214)
* Enable instantiating model with pretrained backbone weights
* Update tests so backbone checkpoint isn't passed in
* Remove doc updates until changes made in modeling code
* Clarify pretrained import
* Update configs - docs and validation check
* Update src/transformers/utils/backbone_utils.py
Co-authored-by: Arthur <48595927+ArthurZucker@users.noreply.github.com>
* Clarify exception message
* Update config init in tests
* Add test for when use_timm_backbone=True
* Small test updates
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Co-authored-by: Arthur <48595927+ArthurZucker@users.noreply.github.com>