Fixes for EncoderDecoderCache (#40008)
* Add expectation to t5 for rocm 9.4
* Made EncoderDecoderCache compatible with nn.DataParallel
* Fixed t5gemma EncoderDecoderCache
* Added todos in autoformer
* Ruff
* Init is self-contained
* Review compliance
* Fixed kwargs init of EncoderDecoderCache
