Fix SDPA tests (#28552)
* skip bf16 test if not supported by device
* fix
* fix bis
* use is_torch_bf16_available_on_device
* use is_torch_fp16_available_on_device
* fix & use public llama
* use 1b model
* fix flacky test
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