add recommendations for NPU using flash_attn (#36383)
* add recommendations for Ascend NPU using flash_attn
* update recommend_message_npu
Co-authored-by: Marc Sun <57196510+SunMarc@users.noreply.github.com>
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Co-authored-by: Marc Sun <57196510+SunMarc@users.noreply.github.com>
