Add cuda compatibility check for using `grouped_mm` (#45001)
* Add cuda compatibility check for grouped_mm
* Explicitly check for torch 2.9 too
* make style
* Add comment
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Co-authored-by: Ilyas Moutawwakil <57442720+IlyasMoutawwakil@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Anton Vlasjuk <73884904+vasqu@users.noreply.github.com>