[`DETR`] Remove timm hardcoded logic in modeling files (#29038)
* Enable instantiating model with pretrained backbone weights
* Clarify pretrained import
* Use load_backbone instead
* Add backbone_kwargs to config
* Fix up
* Add tests
* Tidy up
* Enable instantiating model with pretrained backbone weights
* Update tests so backbone checkpoint isn't passed in
* Clarify pretrained import
* Update configs - docs and validation check
* Update src/transformers/utils/backbone_utils.py
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* Clarify exception message
* Update config init in tests
* Add test for when use_timm_backbone=True
* Use load_backbone instead
* Add use_timm_backbone to the model configs
* Add backbone_kwargs to config
* Pass kwargs to constructors
* Draft
* Fix tests
* Add back timm - weight naming
* More tidying up
* Whoops
* Tidy up
* Handle when kwargs are none
* Update tests
* Revert test changes
* Deformable detr test - don't use default
* Don't mutate; correct model attributes
* Add some clarifying comments
* nit - grammar is hard
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Co-authored-by: Arthur <48595927+ArthurZucker@users.noreply.github.com>