:rotating_light: [`Ernie 4.5 VL Moe`] Fix up namings to vllm/sglang convention (#44299)
* rename
* small fix and and adjust converter
* oops
* try
* docs
* fix tests
* last one?
* revisions
* fixup naming for ckpt conversion needed for norm
* trigger ci fresh
* aliases with classes because modular doesnt pick it up otherwise
* style
* so many exceptions
* fix
* when does it end
* small fixup
* add bc name to conversion mapping as well