Align backbone stage selection with out_indices & out_features (#27606)
* Iteratre over out_features instead of stage_names
* Update for all backbones
* Add tests
* Fix
* Align timm backbone behaviour with other backbones
* Fix tests
* Stricter checks on set out_features and out_indices
* Revert back stage selection logic
* Remove out-of-order logic
* Document restriction in docstrings