🚨Early-error🚨 config will error out if `output_attentions=True` and the attn implementation is wrong (#38288)
* Protect ParallelInterface
* early error out on output attention setting for no wraning in modeling
* modular update
* fixup
* update model tests
* update
* oups
* set model's config
* more cases
* ??
* properly fix
* fixup
* update
* last onces
* update
* fix?
* fix wrong merge commit
* fix hub test
* nits
* wow I am tired
* updates
* fix pipeline!
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Co-authored-by: Lysandre <hi@lysand.re>