[trainer metrics] fix cpu mem metrics; reformat runtime metric (#10937)
* fix cpu mem metrics; reformat runtime metric
* adjust dependency
* extend docs
* soft dependency
* cleanup
* fix the runtime metric issue
* restore
* move docs, cross reference from 2 places, improve
* Apply suggestions from code review
Co-authored-by: Sylvain Gugger <35901082+sgugger@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Sylvain Gugger <35901082+sgugger@users.noreply.github.com>