feat(core): add XML format option for `get_buffer_string` (#34802)
## Summary
Add XML format option for `get_buffer_string()` to provide unambiguous
message serialization. This fixes role prefix ambiguity when message
content contains strings like "Human:" or "AI:".
Fixes #34786
## Changes
- Add `format="xml"` parameter with proper XML escaping using
`quoteattr()` for attributes
- Add explicit validation for format parameter (raises `ValueError` for
invalid values)
- Add comprehensive tests for XML format edge cases
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Co-authored-by: Mason Daugherty <github@mdrxy.com>
Co-authored-by: Mason Daugherty <mason@langchain.dev>