core: add RemoveMessage (#23636)
This change adds a new message type `RemoveMessage`. This will enable
`langgraph` users to manually modify graph state (or have the graph
nodes modify the state) to remove messages by `id`
Examples:
* allow users to delete messages from state by calling
```python
graph.update_state(config, values=[RemoveMessage(id=state.values[-1].id)])
```
* allow nodes to delete messages
```python
graph.add_node("delete_messages", lambda state: [RemoveMessage(id=state[-1].id)])
```
