feat(data/finset/lattice): 3*2 lemmas about max/min and max'/min' (#15978)
The six lemmas in this PR show that
* `finset.max` and `finset.max'` coincide (when and how they can);
* the `finset.max'` of `s.erase x` is not `x`;
* the `finset.max` of `s.erase x` is not `x`;
and their `@[to_dual]` analogues.