refactor(data/finsupp/antidiagonal): Make antidiagonal a finset (#7595)
Pursuant to discussion [here](https://leanprover.zulipchat.com/#narrow/stream/113488-general/topic/antidiagonals.20having.20multiplicity)
Refactoring so that `finsupp.antidiagonal` and `multiset.antidiagonal` are finsets.
~~Still TO DO: `multiset.antidiagonal`~~