feat(data/finset/lattice): four lemmas about non-membership and max/min (#16192)
These four lemmas were proved and used by Eric in his decidable version of `finsupp.lex`, replacing my previous undecidable one.
They are extracted from #15984 (now closed) and used in #16127 (which replaces the closed PR).
Authored-by: Eric Wieser <[wieser.eric@gmail.com](mailto:wieser.eric@gmail.com)>
Submitted by me :smile: