chore(category_theory/sites/*): Adjust some `simp` lemmas. (#10574)
The primary change is removing some `simp` tags from the definition of `sheafify` and friends, so that the sheafification related constructions are not unfolded to the `plus` constructions.
Also -- added coercion from Sheaves to presheaves, and some `rfl` simp lemmas which help some proofs move along.
Some proofs cleaned up as well.
Co-authored-by: Johan Commelin <johan@commelin.net>