refactor(linear_algebra/tensor_product): make `lift f (x ⊗ₜ y) = f x y` true by `rfl` (#18121)
Since this is essentially the "primitive" recursor, it is very convenient for it to expand definitionally.
With this change, the following lemmas are now rfl:
* `algebra.mul'_apply`
* `free_monoid.lift_comp_of`
* `free_monoid.lift_eval_of`
* `tensor_product.lie_module.lift_apply`
* `alternating_map.dom_coprod'_apply`
* `contract_left_apply`
* `contract_right_apply`
* `dual_tensor_hom_apply`
* `derivation.tensor_product_to_tmul`
* `poly_equiv_tensor.to_fun_linear_tmul_apply`
* `tensor_product.lift.tmul`
* `tensor_product.lift.tmul'`
* `algebra.tensor_product.lift_tmul`
* `algebra.tensor_product.lmul'_apply_tmul`
* `tensor_product.algebra.smul_def`
And one lemma is no longer rfl
* `free_monoid.lift_apply`