chore(algebra/group_hom): rename `add_monoid.smul` to `nsmul` (#2861)
Also drop `•` as a notation for two `smul`s declared in this file,
use `•ℕ` and `•ℤ` instead.
This way one can immediately see that a lemma uses `nsmul`/`gsmul`, not `has_scalar.smul`.