feat(data/finset/basic): A finset that's a subset of a `directed` union is contained in one element (#13727)
Proves `directed.exists_mem_subset_of_finset_subset_bUnion`
Renames `finset.exists_mem_subset_of_subset_bUnion_of_directed_on` to `directed_on.exists_mem_subset_of_finset_subset_bUnion`