chore(data/complex/module): rename `complex.smul_coe` to `real_smul` (#9326)
* the name was misleading b/c there is no `coe` in the LHS;
* add `complex.coe_smul`: given `x : ℝ` and `y : E`, we have
`(x : ℂ) • y = x • y`;
* add `normed_space.complex_to_real`.