feat(data/finset/lattice): add three*2 lemmas about `finset.max/min` (#15212)
The three lemmas are
* `mem_le_max: ↑a ≤ s.max`,
* `max_mono : s.max ≤ t.max`,
* `max_le : s.max ≤ M`,
and
* `min_le_coe_of_mem : s.min`,
* `min_mono : t.min ≤ s.min`,
* `le_min : m ≤ s.min`.
~~I feel that I did not get the hang of `finset.max`: probably a lot of golfing is possible, at least for `max_mono`!~~
Luckily, Eric looked at the PR and now the proofs have been shortened!
I also golfed `le_max_of_mem` and `min_le_of_mem`.