chore({data/{finset,set},order/filter}/pointwise): Reorganize files (#14021)
Order the three files more similarly. The idea is to order things as:
* Arithmetic notation typeclasses, and lemmas that don't depend on algebraic structure for them:
* `0` and `1`
* `-` and `⁻¹`
* `+` and `*`
* `-` and `/`
* monoid-like instances, interleaved with the corresponding lemmas (some of them are used for the instances themselves, and more will be in the future)
* `•`
* `-ᵥ`
* scalar instances