feat(data/finset/basic): Add `decidable_nonempty` for finsets. (#15170)
Also remove some redundant decidable instances in multiset and list.
Co-authored-by: Eric Wieser <wieser.eric@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Wrenna Robson <34025592+linesthatinterlace@users.noreply.github.com>