refactor(data/finsupp/basic): merge `finsupp.of_multiset` and `multiset.to_finsupp` (#5237)
* redefine `finsupp.to_multiset` as an `add_equiv`;
* drop `finsupp.equiv_multiset` and `finsupp.of_multiset`;
* define `multiset.to_finsupp` as `finsupp.to_multiset.symm`.