feat(group_theory/order_of_element): generalised to add_order_of (#6770)
This PR defines `add_order_of` for an additive monoid. If someone sees how to do this with more automation, let me know.
This gets one step towards closing issue #1563.
Coauthored by: Yakov Pechersky @pechersky
Co-authored-by: Julian-Kuelshammer <68201724+Julian-Kuelshammer@users.noreply.github.com>