[SDISel][Builder] Fix the instantiation of <1 x bfloat|half> (#94591)
Prior to this change, `SelectionDAGBuilder` was producing `SDNode`s of
the form: `f32 = extract_vector_elt <1 x bfloat|half>, i32 0` when
lowering phis of `<1 x bfloat|half>` and running on a target that
promotes this type to `f32` (like some x86 or AMDGPU targets.)
This construct is invalid since this type of node only allows type
extensions for integer types.
It went unotice because the `extract_vector_elt` node is later broken
down in `bitcast` followed by `bf16_to_fp|fp_extend`. However, when the
argument of the phi is a constant we were crashing because the existing
code would try to constant fold this `extract_vector_elt` into a
any_ext.
This patch fixes this by using a proper decomposition for `<1 x
bfloat|half>`:
```
bfloat|half = bitcast <1 x blfoat|half>
float = fp_extend bfloat|half
```
This change should be NFC for the non-constant-folding cases and fix the
SDISel crashes (reported in
https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/issues/94449) for the folding
cases.
Note: The change on the arm test is a missing fp16 to f32 constant folding
exposed by this patch. I'll push a separate improvement for that.