[libc] Fix move destruction double-freeing ports after move to RAII
Summary:
Recently I changed the interface to use RAII to close the ports. This
exposed a problem where the default move constructor was invoked in the
optional wrapping, this caused the destructor to fire twice on the
server, obviously causing havok. This PR changes the move destructor to
be deleted so this never happens again. Now everything is constructed
once and only references are allowed. The optional class had to be
fixed to properly set in_use so we run the destructor properly as well.