[Clang] Mark this pointer in destructors dead_on_return (#166276)
This helps to clean up any dead stores that come up at the end of the
destructor. The motivating example was a refactoring in libc++'s
basic_string implementation in 8dae17be2991cd7f0d7fd9aa5aecd064520a14f6
that added a zeroing store into the destructor, causing a large
performance regression on an internal workload. We also saw a ~0.2%
performance increase on an internal server workload when enabling this.
I also tested this against all of the non-flaky tests in our large C++
codebase and found a minimal number of issues that all happened to be in
user code.