[libcxx][docs] Note how to use just built libc++ with per-target runtimes layout (#172316)
Fixes #172024
This is something a lot of people can probably figure out themselves but
having this obvious wrong turn in the getting started document isn't a
good first impression.
So I've added a note to highlight how to deal with it.
I don't want to go into detail there about the layout itself, but it
should be enough that people know to check by listing the contents of
the lib/ folder.