[Clang] Fix the warning group of several compatibilty diagnostics (#138872)
There are a few diagnostics that are incorrectly grouped under
`-Wc++20-compat` instead of `-Wpre-c++20-compat`.
I grepped for any remaining `-Wc++xy-compat` diagnostics, but they all
seem to actually be about compatibility with C++XY.
Fixes #138775.