[SLP][TTI][AMDGPU] Add TTI hook preferSLPInstCountCheck for per-target opt-out (#199696)
Add `preferSLPInstCountCheck()` to TTI so targets can opt out of the
2-element inst-count heuristic in `getTreeCost()`. Default returns
`true`
(existing behavior unchanged). `getTreeCost()` ANDs the existing
`SLPInstCountCheck` flag with the hook result. `GCNTTIImpl` returns
`false` for gfx940/gfx941/gfx942 and gfx950.
Fixes #199662.