[libc++] Do not call `reserve` in flat containers if underlying container is user defined (#140379)
This is brought up in the LWG reflector. We currently call `reserve` if
the underlying container has one. But the spec does not specify what
`reserve` should do for Sequence Container. So in theory if the
underlying container is user defined type and it can have a function
called `reserve` which does something completely different.
The fix is to just call `reserve` for STL containers if it has one