[LLVM][CodeGen] Use VSELECT to implement "merging" INSERT_SUBVECTORs. (#172850)
When widening the subvector of INSERT_SUBVECTOR(vec, subvec, 0) to the
same type as its result, we're effectively turning the operation into a
merge that can be implement with a VSELECT whose mask is based on the
original subvector's element count.