[AArch64][ISel] Improve lowering for clmul v4i32 with AES (#204542)
Lower CLMUL v4i32 by splitting it into two v2i32 operations and
concatenating the results when AES is available. This avoids the much
larger generic expansion and lets v4i16 benefit via legalization through
v4i32.
Update the cost model: v4i32 is costed as the 11-instruction PMULL
sequence, and v4i16 as that sequence plus the required input widens and
result narrow.