DAG: Handle load in SimplifyDemandedVectorElts
This improves some AMDGPU cases and avoids future regressions.
The combiner likes to form shuffles for cases where an extract_vector_elt
would do perfectly well, and this recovers some of the regressions from
losing load narrowing.
AMDGPU, Arch64 and RISCV test changes look broadly better. Other targets have
some improvements, but mostly regressions. In particular X86 looks much
worse. I'm guessing this is because it's shouldReduceLoadWidth is wrong.
I mostly just regenerated the checks. I assume some set of them should
switch to use volatile loads to defeat the optimization.