[lit] dealloc ApplyResult objects as they're waited on (#188642)
In _wait_for(), all async tasks are waited for. However, the objects
are held in the async_result list until the function calls complete.
This leads to about 3.6gig mem usage on my system when running
check-llvm, even though these objects aren't needed after the ar.get()
call.
Dealloc them as we go instead.
Addresses #188641