[AArch64][llvm] Rewrite the TLBI multiclass to be much clearer (NFC)
The `tlbi` multiclass is really doing four jobs at once: base TLBI,
synthesized nXS, optional TLBIP, and synthesized TLBIP nXS. Also,
`needsreg` and `optreg` are really just a 3-state operand policy in
disguise. Likewise, the PLBI multiclass has this same issue.
Change `needsreg` and `optreg` into a combined fake enum, so it's
clearer whether the instruction takes no register operand, a required
register operand or an optional register operand.
This improves on my original change 66e8270e8.