[lldb][DataFormatter] Simplify std::unordered_map::iterator formatter (#97754)
Depends on https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/pull/97752
This patch changes the way we retrieve the key/value pair in the
`std::unordered_map::iterator` formatter (similar to how we are changing
it for `std::map::iterator` in
https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/pull/97713, the motivations being
the same).
The old logic was not very easy to follow, and encoded the libc++ layout
in non-obvious ways. But mainly it was also fragile to alignment
miscalculations (https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/pull/97443); this
would break once the new layout of `std::unordered_map` landed as part
of https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/issues/93069.
Instead, this patch simply casts the `__hash_iterator` to a
`__node_pointer` (which is what libc++ does too) and uses a
straightforward `GetChildMemberWithName("__value_")` to get to the
key/value we care about.
The `std::unordered_map` already does it this way, so we align the
iterator counterpart to do the same. We can eventually re-use the
core-part of the `std::unordered_map` and `std::unordered_map::iterator`
formatters. But it will be an easier to change to review once both
simplifications landed.