[SLP] Do not match the gather node with copyable parent, containing insert instruction
If the gather/buildvector node has the match and this matching node has
a scheduled copyable parent, and the parent node of the original node
has a last instruction, which is non-schedulable and is part of the
schedule copyable parent, such matching node should be excluded as
non-matching, since it produces wrong def-use chain.
Fixes #165435