[lldb] Fix memory monitor shutdown on Linux using eventfd (#178083)
The current linux implementation has a 1 second timeout when polling for
memory pressure. lldb-dap may take up to an extra 1 second to shutdown.
Use an event file descriptor to immediately stop the memory monitor
thread.
Fixes #150220
(cherry picked from commit a5ffce0faebe5f49d8befb774f4cb781b9e33df7)