params partition for skip_init (#4722)
Some models use ```skip_init``` to initialize weights. ```skip_init```
first initializes on a meta device in ```__init__``` of a module and
then uses ```to_empty()```. This conflicts with the deepspeed hook
```module.__init__``` mechanism. it's necessary to wait for
```skip_init``` to finish before executing ```_post_init_method```.
However, the ```from ... import skip_init``` behavior typically occurs
outside the context, there seems to be no good way to directly hook into
```skip_init```. Hence, the approach here is to delay the execution of
```_post_init_method``` to resolve this issue.
Known affected models include HuggingFace models like chatglm2 and
chatglm3."
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Co-authored-by: Logan Adams <114770087+loadams@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Olatunji Ruwase <olruwase@microsoft.com>
Co-authored-by: Masahiro Tanaka <81312776+tohtana@users.noreply.github.com>
