DS_BUILD_OPS should build only compatible ops (#6489)
Currently DS_BUILD_OPS=1 fails on incompatible ops. This is a deviation
from
[documentation](https://www.deepspeed.ai/tutorials/advanced-install/#pre-install-deepspeed-ops)
which states that only compatible ops are built.
<img width="614" alt="image"
src="https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/0f1a184e-b568-4d25-9e9b-e394fb047df2">
