refactor: drop redundant _rlhf_ prefix from VLLMRollout private methods
The _rlhf_pause, _rlhf_resume, _rlhf_update_weights_nccl methods are
private to VLLMRollout and the class context already makes the RLHF
association clear. Rename to _pause, _resume, _update_weights_nccl
and remove noisy [rlhf] log prefixes.
Signed-off-by: Guokai Ma <guokai.ma@intel.com>