[XPU] support op builder from intel_extension_for_pytorch kernel path (#5425)
#Motivation
From our next release, xpu DeepSpeed related kernels would be put into
intel_extension_for_pytorch. This PR is to add new op builders and use
kernel path from intel_extension_for_pytorch. More ops like MOE and WOQ
will be added.
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Co-authored-by: Logan Adams <114770087+loadams@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Olatunji Ruwase <olruwase@microsoft.com>