[TensorRT EP] update oss parser to latest (#23710)
### Description
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* Update oss parser version to latest commit of 10.8-GA branch
### Motivation and Context
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* Action needed to adapt latest onnx-tensorrt 10.8-GA branch to fix
scatterND attribute issue and `plugin.h` not found issue
