fix quantization errors of ConvTranspose with per_channel=True (#19996)
### Description
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- update axis value for per_channel quantization of QDQConv
- we should use `axis=1` for ConvTranspose operator.
### Motivation and Context
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- this PR fixes https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/issues/19694,
which I have opened