Fix antialias downsample on CUDA EP (#25265)
### Description
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This PR addresses 3 issues:
- Compilation errors when DISABLE_CONTRIB_OPS flag is on
- Solve a CUDA compute kernel setup issue on Resize op with cubic filter
and antialiasing
- Solve cubic_coeff_a parameter being ignored in CUDA kernel of Resize
op
### Motivation and Context
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#25264
